Not Centre Stage and Exactly Where I Belong
Our Experience Manager, Stephanie wrote a blog about the stage and what it truly means to her. Throughout this piece, Stephanie explains in her own words about the “e” way - it’s people and personalizations like this that make our events, conferences, productions, and incentive programs just feel different.
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Despite my absolute inability to dance, growing up I dreamt of being on Broadway. Being centre stage in a theatre performing Gershwin [yes, at fourteen I really did love Gershwin] and tap dancing the show away. Obviously, that’s not quite how it turned out for teenage Stephanie, but her curiosity and love for the stage would bring her more opportunities than she could have imagined.
When I began my journey with “e” the job felt mysterious. No show or event was ever the same twice. I learned that to be good at this job, it meant I had to be on top of everything, and to be great, I had to be ahead of everything. These might sound similar, but trust me, they are not.
As my time with “e” progressed, the mystery faded, and I found myself closer and closer to an unexpected and familiar friend, the stage. Only this time, I was behind the curtain.
I found a rhythm working with speakers from all sorts of industries and backgrounds. Many had never held a microphone or seen a teleprompter before. Often intimidated by the bright stage lights that blind them the moment before finding their mark. I learned that my dear friend had a tendency to make even the most senior leader nervous and my affection had a unique ability to put them at ease. And sometimes, just sometimes, even make it fun.
In the famous 1993 publication,
The Book of Lists, the number one top rated fear in the world was revealed to be Public Speaking. For perspective, death ranked number six. This statistic has always stayed with me. That, for whatever the reason may be, many find speaking in front of people is literally worse than
dying. As a proud former theatre kid, I have experienced my share of stage fright. As a proud current stage manager, I ground myself in the privilege of being the last person our speaker, presenter, host, CEO, or whomever, will see before stepping into the spotlight and facing their [possible] worst fear. That it is up to me to remind them, you’ve got this, you’re prepared, and if you picture everyone in their underwear that is totally up to you, but I wouldn’t suggest it.
Being behind the curtain may not sound as glamorous as Radio City Music Hall, but to many of those we work with, this IS their Radio City Music Hall. This is the biggest stage they will be on, and they
are going on it – even if they can’t dance.
Maybe it’s not as impressive as a pirouette, but trust me, sometimes a smile, a glass of water, and a binder open to the right page is the choreography they need in anticipation of stage lights. To be ahead of everything.
It’s a wonderful experience to work with so many who are new to or nervous on the stage. To find a way to help them enjoy their moment in the spotlight. To be the first to congratulate them on an incredible performance as they step off is a gift I don’t take for granted. It feels purposeful and empowering to be the steady presence at the sidestage for those in the spotlight. Maybe it’s not centre stage at Radio City, but it is exactly where I belong.





